Yup, I'm sick, haven't been in a very long time! It's lame and stuff! I have a stuffy nose, post nasal drip, a sore throat and fever. Could be a sinus infection, or maybe just a cold. Either way, not digging it very much! It's oober lame!
So, here I am, in bed. Resting, hoping I will feel better enough tomorrow to go to work! Otherwise I will have to call in, I don't feel well! And, I don't wanna do that. We shall see. Had a photoshoot yesterday. Probly was a bad plan to go, should have been resting, oh well. What's done is done! Maybe I'll post some pictures!
So, I was just thinking, you know how when your dating, it is about 6 months before you really know the person, to where they let their guard down and show you who they are. I have always just limited that to dating. But, a relationship is still a relationship, right? I mean, a new friendship is still just as fragile as a dating one. So, all that to say, I bet that the 6 month rule applies to friendships too! I mean, to be careful how much you invest in the friendship in the first 6 months, just as you would in a dating relationship. I really feel that would save some heartache.
Also, don't give up so easy. Friendships are work, just like any other relationship, it takes both people to try for it to work.
I'm sorry you're not feeling well! :(
ReplyDeleteI hope you feel better! Yes, I think you're right. I never thought about friendships like that before either. You're the best!
Thanks husband! I love you!
ReplyDeleteso did you figure this friendship thing out by personal experience?
ReplyDeleteKinda, I was laying on my bed today and had an "AH HA" moment.
ReplyDeleteI like your blog. I've been reading it for the last 30 minutes. I like your thoughts about friendship too. I'm not the best at making new friends but it is sort of a process. Matt and I just talked about pursuing friendships that we enjoy and people we like. I'm trying to be positive about it :) maybe we can be friends!
ReplyDeleteThanks Lauren!
ReplyDeleteI think it definately is a process! A class I think I missed somewhere along the line. It's hard to make new friends, especially as an adult with responsibilities and stuff. Makes it hard to keep up. Brad and I talk about it all the time! :)
I think we definately could be friends. :)